Welcome, my loves!

I am a 30-something single parent of two, who has been writing in various forms since 2001, tackling a variety of subjects from a devil’s advocate viewpoint. My writing has wound me through the tantalizing world of the online adult variety and alternative lifestyles, as well as my own personal accounts of divorce, online relationships, and corporate America.

“It’s not me, it’s you” is meant to be an unapologetic look at honesty, particularly as it relates to dating. I’ll continue my devil’s advocate approach, calling myself out, while shedding light on the unspoken truths of those I encounter.

24 Dates: It’s simple… 24 dates in 6 months.  You get to reap the benefits by reading about my adventures.

When It’s You: When you’re the problem, you end up here.  Simple as that.

When It’s Me: The fact is, it isn’t always someone else.  I have my own issues and I own up to them here.

Boy Stories: My little sometimes casual interactions with the opposite sex.

Healing: Introspective, raw, and honest musings about a life, love and loss.